Right now, you are saying many affirmations to yourself about your ability to attract women, whether you know it or not.
Those affirmations are having a direct influence over your ability to get women.
If you are affirming negative things about yourself then you will not be able to attract women easily; however, if you are saying positive things about yourself then you will have much more luck with women.
Following are five steps to help you start affirming positive things to yourself that help you attract women.
#1. Decide Where Your Strengths Are
First, you need to focus on the positive traits that you do have. You have probably spent so much time affirming negative things to yourself that you forgotten about your positive traits!
You will easily be able to affirm these things to yourself because they are obviously true, and you believe them. These will help you kick-start your positive affirmations.
For example, you may be good-looking, you may have a good job, you may be funny, or you may have a way of listening to women that they love.
When you sit down and think about it, you will probably be surprised at how many good beliefs you already have about yourself.
#2. Decide What Affirmations Are Holding You Back From Attracting Women
There will be certain things that you affirm to yourself that stop you from attracting women the way you want to. These negative things that you tell yourself cause you to lose out with women repeatedly.
One of the most common affirmations is ‘women don’t find me attractive.’ When you say this to yourself, you are going to become unattractive to women. Why?
Because your body language portrays your inner thoughts, and when you have low self-confidence about yourself it will be displayed through your body language. And women are not attracted to a guy with low self-confidence who walks around slumped over and unsure of himself.
Other negative affirmations, such as ‘women always reject me’ or ‘I don’t know what to say to women’ may be holding you back from approaching women. These are affirmations that are definitely holding you back from attracting women.
#3. Figure Out What You Want To Believe About Yourself
Using your previous list, figure out what beliefs you want to change.
What do you want to stop believing about yourself and replace with positive beliefs that actually help you get the women you want?
Would you rather believe that women DO find you attractive? Would you rather believe that women will NOT reject you?
Would you like to believe that no matter what a woman says, you ARE a total catch for all women?
Once you figure out the things that you want to affirm to yourself, don’t just keep them in your head; instead, write out a list so that you can see them. In addition, prioritize your list by writing down the things you most want to affirm to yourself.
When you are able to visually see your desired beliefs, you will be much more inspired to start working on them.
#4. Turn Your List Into Affirmations
Now, you need to turn your list of things you want to believe into affirmations that will help you form those beliefs.
You need to make these affirmations detailed and positive. Remember, your beliefs come from the things you tell yourself on a daily basis, and if what you tell yourself is faulty or has holes, then you will not fully believe it.
For example, let’s say the top three things on your list are as follows:
1. I want to believe that I am desirable to women.
2. I want to be able to talk to women without saying all the wrong things.
3. I want to be the sexy guy, not the ‘friend’ guy.
These are things that you want, but in order to turn them into affirmations and start believing them, you have to add positive words like ‘can’ or ‘will’ or ‘am’. For example:
1. I AM desirable to every woman who I approach.
2. I CAN talk to women easily and effortlessly in a way that they respond well to.
3. I CAN instantly cause a woman to become attracted to me, and I never end up in the friend zone.
The above three statements are positive affirmations that leave no holes or room for disbelief.
#5. Use Your Affirmations Often
Affirming these things to yourself may seem silly to you right now, but believe me, affirmations like this work! The more you tell yourself these positive and detailed things, the more you will start to believe it about yourself.
And the more you believe it, the more you will change to become the guy you want to be!
No matter how silly it seems, tell yourself your new affirmations morning, noon, and night, and anytime you can in between. When you hear an old, negative affirmation in your head, quickly stop saying it to yourself and replace it with your new, positive affirmation.
Ensure that you write down your affirmations and put them in places where you will see them often. This will offer you a visual reminder to keep affirming these positive statements to yourself.
By using the above five steps to create positive affirmations and change your beliefs, you will start to become the guy that you want to be. You will have an easier time with women and you will be able to attract women to you, and all you have to do is talk to yourself differently.
Remember, you are always affirming something to yourself, and those affirmations make up your current beliefs, so use that knowledge to keep your affirmations, and your believes, positive.
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